What is your goal in life?

One of the fellows I spar with is involved with the Pachamama Alliance. Funny name, serious mission. Their stated goal is:

I particularly appreciate that last part, “to educate and inspire individuals everywhere.” In that vein, they’ve started a one day seminar series that my wife and I recently took part in.

My top 3 takeaways from the seminar:

1. Our goal is to leave each day in blessed unrest.
2. We need to awaken from our collective trance.
3. The assumption that we are separate is simply false.

Check them out, particularly the 4YG campaign to help spread the word.

Farewell, My Subaru

This is a darn funny book. Even funnier to me, given that I own a beloved Subaru, and that this guy is recording his attempts at opting out, just as I am. But that’s where the similarities end, thankfully for Doug Fine.

Fine is a single guy with a decent amount of disposable income to drop on a new chunk of land, a significant amount of solar panels, and a truckload (literally) of other gear to “go green”. If that strikes you as a bit hypocritical, it strikes Fine the same way. He does a great job of relating his journey towards a carbon-neutral life, even the woes of purchasing “plastic crap from Wal-Mart” and thinking about the significant amounts of oil it takes to manufacture and deliver his stereo system.

And the whole time, he makes you laugh.

I appreciated the insight from his website about how all the aspects of his life are affected by his decision to living better on less oil:

I also learned a bit of green geek wisdom from his book. For instance, did you know it takes 4.8 acres of agricultural land to maintain an American family of four on a mainstream diet? And significantly less land if they are vegetarian? We’re not vegetarians, and in addition to our nuclear family of four we house two additional adults full time plus lots of regular weekend guests. It makes me think that we need to make our 2.5 acres work very, very efficiently.

But most importantly, Fine taught me that all good books (and lives) should include a love story. His book does. My life does. Just as Fine learned an experimental adventure like his is best done as a two-person team, I’ve learned the same. Not sure what I would do without my best friend / wife. But it sure would not be this.

Highly recommended book, as is his first one I read a few years ago, Not Really An Alaskan Mountain Man.

Reversing the consumer mentality

Being a consumer is the opposite of being a citizen. Let me explain…

I was raised in a great home in North America. Lots of ethical training/modeling, lots of love, and *lots* of grace (given what they put up with me from ages 5-18). But I also received modeling and direct instruction that is decidedly at odds with what I believe is sustainable in our world today.

Heavy consumption was modeled to me; something for which I still need others to keep me in check. I was taught to throw out broken items, rather than seek to repair them myself or do without them. I was taught that love is given through tangible gifts.

Not sure if this was/is just my family, or if it was a generational thing. I suspect it is a generational thing, given the state of the planet. To me, this state of heavy consumerism is the exact opposite of self-reliance.

I missed out on learning a lot of real-world skills as a youth, skills that lend themselves to self-reliance as an individual and as a contributing member of a small town. Skills like welding, stitching, sustenance (not sport) hunting, gardening, basic CPR, self-defense, camping, firearm safety, keeping a knife sharp, and using hand tools (not electric powered), just to name a few.

A good friend my age in St. Louis wisely observed that our fathers and grandfathers were not “mountain men type” guys. There were very few of those type of guys in the last two generations in North America. And thus not many guys in my generation learned this seemingly wide variety of real life skills. I know *some* guys that know *some* of these skills, but not many that know 50%+ of them.

I’d like to reverse that trend starting with my children. My father’s plan for me was to become the best in very few aspects of life, and then outsource all the others. I agree with that to some extent, and I am quite thankful that I even had a father interested in my life, as many of my friends do not.

But encouraging specialization is something I’ll do with my children only after a wide foundational base of skills is laid. I plan for my kids to be fairly well-versed in the “fight, shoot, plant, build, weld, forge, invest, raise things, nurture, etc” categories by the time they leave home, much of it just by tagging along with my wife and me when we are doing it in our daily lives. THEN they can specialize in something like engineering, education, medicine, agriculture, or whatever they desire.

I believe if my kids leave home with those foundational skills, they will launch into the world with a true sense of living. And then be well-equipped to find their own true sense of purpose, including being a strong, useful citizen of our town and country.

A wise woman told me this year:

What is truly crazy is the modern lifestyle developed nations have adopted that has people totally disconnected from the business of “living”. Our happiness and health (or the lack thereof) can be in large part attributed to this one factor alone. Even if you discount away the value of living well with lower resource consumption/impacts – this one aspect alone is compelling enough reason for me to expend energy and time doing things that I know I could well afford to just purchase or have someone else do for me.

I hope to train my children to be self-sufficient, without forgetting our reliance on grace. I suspect many other folks do, as well.

Wealth and sustainability

All too often I hear my MBA students tell me the target market for the product/service is LOHAS, the lucrative segment that includes folks with Lifestyles of Health & Sustainability.

They may be correct, but their sustainability solutions won’t really change the world unless they can extend their focus *way* past the wealth and celebrity of LOHAS.

Look no further than this post by a woman named Broke-Ass Grouch to understand why.

Mnmlist view

I come from a family of excessive gifts on the holidays. So much so that we end up either avoiding or dreading spending Christmas with my extended family. The one-time wrapping and packaging kills me, the non-practical gifts that cost too much annoy me, and the loss of focus on relationships pushes me over the edge.

And then a read a cool post like this one from a fellow I respect and I gain hope again.